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a beginner's course to understanding yourself in the simplest way possible.

CHOOSING ME.


Building a strong sense of

self-worth, self-love and self-respect

is the only way to give yourself the life you truly deserve.

next cohort starts March 2nd 2026

 

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Our society has never taught you how to step into your power.

 

Most of us have little freedom and control over our bodies, our minds, our emotions, our needs and desires and aren't aware of all the power we actually have to influence and even change the whole course of our lives.

 

Today, you do not need any permission to create the best life for yourself.

 

Whatever you can dream of, you can have.

 

But only if you learn to recognize the immense power that lies within you and understand how to channel this power to redesign your relationships (with yourself and with others), your lifestyle and your career.

 

 

This is for you if...

 

  • Feel like everything is happening against you instead of happening for you. Right now you feel powerless and unhappy towards the life you are living, even though you have tried your best to change certain areas of your life.

 

  • You struggle with never feeling enough and living with this overwhelming pressure of having to do things perfectly all the time.

 

  • You lack personal boundaries, don't know how to say no, you fear speaking up, sharing your personal opinion and constantly trying to please everyone.

 

  • Your sense of self-worth comes from the external world. You rely on other people's opinions about you to feel good or bad about yourself. You feel very affected by what other people think about who you are and what you do.

 

  • You find yourself in relationships where you can't be your most authentic self. You feel like you have to hide or change parts of yourself to be accepted by the people around you.

 

  • You try to convince yourself that you are with the right partner, working at the right job or entertaining the right friendships, but deep inside, you know that you are lying to yourself and that you deserve better than your reality currently is, but feel stuck about how to move forward.

 

  • You are sick and tired of reading self-help books, using words of affirmations, breathing exercises or manifestation techniques that don't impact your life and relationships significantly.

 

This Course will give you the confidence, guidance and tools you need to become the person you always wanted to be and a powerful human who knows how to go after what you truly want and deserves for your life.

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DISCOVER WHO YOU TRULY ARE

The quality of your life

is a direct reflection of the love

you hold for your Self.

 

Life is full of amazing experiences and opportunities and today, everyone can have access to it.

 

Unfortunately, most people don't think they deserve a better life because their beliefs and actions are grounded in self-doubt and a massive lack of self-worth.

 

I know this because this was exactly me, just a couple of years ago.

 

  • I didn't know what I needed because I had no idea of who I was.

 

  • I never felt enough and was compensating for my lack of self-worth through trying to control everything and do everything perfectly. I didn't know how to relax into my femininity and embrace the discreet but powerful energy that lies in our cycle, our intuition and our divine essence as women.

 

  • I had all these negative and criticizing voices in my head that constantly discouraged me and held me back from trying new things and honoring my boundaries, my desires and needs.

 

  • I was scared of being alone and spending time by myself.

 

  • I didn't know how to find the right reasons and clarity that would allow me to be consistent with my personal projects and the goals I have set for myself to improve my life.

 

  • I've wasted years waiting for people to recognize my worth and help me the way I would help them, but rarely got the equivalent of all my energy and effort back.

 

But everything changed the moment I learned how to love and respect myself more.

 

How did I learn to love myself better?

 

By building awareness around what the world (my parents, school, society, experiences) has taught me about who I thought I was.

 

I learned to deconstruct all these voices and beliefs about me that weren't true in the first place, to then rewrite the real story about who I am.

 

Your relationships, your career, your health, your financial income and the quality of your life are direct reflections of how deeply you love yourself.

 

The more you love yourself, the better you want for yourself (you know this is true because you know that you want the absolute BEST for the people you love, right?).

 

So, to put an end to a life you are not satisfied with and create a life for yourself you can't even dream of (right now), You. NEED. Self-Love.

 

You, reading this right now, absolutely DESERVE to be chosen by the most important person in your life :

 

Yourself.

 

And I can tell you that the moment you learn how to finally choose yourself, will also be the moment where your external world will start to reflect the love, worth and respect you have been looking for.

WHAT IS INSIDE THE COURSE?

The Choosing Me Course

Chapter one : GET REAL.

this is what you will learn

I'm going to be completely honest with you.

 

The journey towards the most authentic version of yourself is hard.

 

Believe me when I say that your whole reality will change. Because through our journey together, you will change on a very deep level.

 

This course is going to teach you everything you need, to gain awareness and have a clear vision of the story of :

 

  • who you are
  • why you do what you do
  • why you feel the way you do
  • why you have the life, body and health, relationships and career you are currently having

 

Once we get real, we can finally make decisions and take actions according to our real needs, values, desires and goals. 

 

Life will start to feel authentic and effortless because you aren't living life according to others anymore, it's finally about you and how to use the power you have and love you are cultivating to keep making decisions that make your life better and better.

 

  • The Clarity Cards Set (physical) - have guidelines with graphs and deep personal questions to uncover the real story of the most authentic version of you. You will have a clear vision of who you are, what you want, the needs you have that are unique to you and find the best way to meet those needs.

 

  • How to feel your emotions and understand the message behind them - start healing the painful parts of you to stop attracting familiar negative experiences and repeating the same toxic cycles you currently find yourself in.

 

  • How to set strong boundaries - learn to choose yourself and to detach from other people's opinions and expectations of you so you can live the life that you want to live instead of living a life your parents, your friends or society want you to live (because who are they to know what you want?).

 

  • How to step into your full power - learn to go for what you want and gain a deep level of confidence and self-esteem by finally succeeding at what you set yourself up to achieve. This is where you give yourself the body you always wanted to live in, the deep, intimate and real relationships your heart is craving, the career path and opportunities that you always wanted to explore.

HOW I TEACH

The Course Structure

individual learning

5-Weeks curriculum

WEEK ONE - INTRODUCTION.

creating the environement you need to start prioritizing yourself.

 

WEEK TWO - OBSERVATION.

a new way to look at your life story.

 

WEEK THREE - QUESTION.

you are not who you thought you were.

 

WEEK FOUR - DETACH.

responsibility, boundaries + choosing yourself

 

WEEK FIVE - EXPLORE.

self-generated goals + effortless self-love

the Clarity Cards set

Receive my personal card set to uncover the real story of you, understand the network behind your current belief system, discover your boundaries and create a powerful vision for yourself, straight to your home.

enroll here.

MAKE CREATING A BETTER LIFE FOR YOURSELF

feel effortless

 

(because it's not meant to be hard in the first place)

Before you CHOOSE YOURSELF:

 

  • No personal boundaries
  • Stuggle to feel respected and considered
  • Self-worth predicted by other people's opinion
  • Feeling disconnected or overwhelmed by emotions
  • Feeling lost about who you are, what you need and want out of your life

 

After you CHOOSE YOURSELF:

 

  • Strong boundaries
  • A presence and energy that invites respect and importance
  • Deep sense of self-worth coming from inside of you
  • High level of awareness of your feelings and actions
  • Clear vision of who you are, what you need and what you want to do with your life.

 

thanks to your course! I'm much more conscious above all, I treat myself like my best friend - compassionate and loving. It's been a very long time since I last did this.

 

I was even able to process things from my childhood traumas and come to terms with them. now I'm finally a slightly more relaxed mom (you can never be completely relaxed as a mom, especially not if you're a boymom :p) and above all, I'm much more lenient with myself.

 

I also allow myself more recovery time and meet my needs without feeling guilty after. I learned to set boundaries consciously and since then those around me have been able to stick to them. before that there were no boundaries and of course people behaved accordingly.

 

I learned from you that if you want to be treated well, you have to make sure that people do it yourself by setting respectful boundaries and communicating clearly. since then my relationships have become much better, above all deeper and more authentic.

 

I can only warmly recommend this course to everyone. thank you oli 🤍

Michelle

Merci infiniment pour tout !

 

C'était un très beau voyage avec toi et les participant.e.s. Les supports écrits sont super, très clairs, très bonne aide des exemples et des vidéos.

 

Les exercices permettent d'avancer à son propre rythme et de mettre en pratique la théorie. Les clarity cards ont été pour moi un très bon outil pour mieux se comprendre (et elles sont super belles ;-)).

 

La séparation du cours en module avec un thème précis chaque semaine m'a également aidée à savoir dans quelle direction on allait et m'a permis de me fixer des objectifs de semaine en semaine.

 

J'ai beaucoup aimé le fait d'avoir des appels réguliers pour faire le point tou.te.s ensemble.

 

Merci pour ta bienveillance pendant les appels <3. J'étais en période de congé la plupart du temps et le rythme m'a donc très bien convenu.

 

Merci encore :) et bonne suite !

Anonymous

 

CHOOSING ME.

 CHF 300 one-time payment.

 

A beginner's course to understanding yourself in the simplest way possible.

 

This course is a 5-week collective online experience.

 

When you enroll, you will receive an email to gain access to a membership dashboard to access the course modules and be welcomed into the Choosing Me community.

 

  • The CHOOSING ME Curriculum. 5 modules.

  • A Clarity Cards Set sent straight to your home. 

  • 2 Personal Project guidelines and templates for your emotional + personal power projects.

  • Build deep awareness around who you are.

  • Know exactly what you want for your life.

  • Learn to set strong boundaries and inspire respect, peace and presence through your energy.

  • Create a life built around self-love and confidence that will lead you to opportunities and actions to create a life that keeps getting better.

  • Bonus : introduction to my new coming course : choosing love - 5 weeks to healthy, intimate and real relationships.

enroll here.

build a life that just gets better and better.

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